What is the Best Way to Eat Pussy?

Do you like it when your girl orgasms? Do you enjoy being the best she’s ever had? Then you should master the art of pussy eating! The thing is many women can’t orgasm from penetration alone. Due to their anatomy, they need some clitoral stimulation either before or during penetration to reach climax. And eating pussy is one of the most efficient ways to turn on a girl or even give her back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasm!

If you want to find the best way to eat your girl’s pussy, you are in the right place! Our comprehensive guide will not only provide you with the most effective pussy eating techniques but also tell you about her anatomy so that you know why & what to do. More than that, we’ll prevent you from awkward mistakes that can ruin a moment.

So, if you’re ready to learn how to eat pussy like a pro, keep reading!

A pussy is a complex but amazing organ, totally worth understanding!

You definitely should master it to give the highest levels of pleasure to your partner and improve your own love life. Basically, knowing a girl’s anatomy well is the first step to eating pussy the right way and make her want to get randy more often. So, what’s down there?

Outside

• Labia majora and labia minora: these are skin folds that run along her vulva, they protect the opening of the urethra and vagina. Labia sensitivity varies from woman to woman – some adore it when you play with their labia, some are indifferent to it.
• Clitoral hood: There is a clitoral hood or prepuce at the very top of her labia minora, it’s a little skin fold that covers the clitoris. In fact, the clitoral hood exists to protect the clitoris from excessive stimulation and external irritants.
• Clitoris: It’s the most sensitive, erogenous zone of her vulva. In sexological literature, the clitoris is sometimes referred to as the female penis. That’s why almost all pussy eating techniques pay special attention to this tiny organ! The clitoris consists of external and internal components. Its visible part is the glans, it’s located underneath the clitoral hood. The glans has about 8.000 nerve endings, making it hypersensitive. The internal part includes the body or shaft composed of erectile structures (corpora cavernosa) and legs (crura). The clit is 9-11 cm long, so don’t only focus on its glans when you eat her out! Further in the post, we’ll share great pussy eating tips that will help you target her shaft and make her scream with pleasure!
• Urethral opening: It’s an opening where she pees from. It sits in front of the vaginal opening. You won’t pay attention to it while eating pussy.
• Vaginal opening: It’s located between the urethra and anus. Vagina connects the uterus to the outside world and provides lubrication and sensation. It feels amazing for girls when you stimulate their vaginal opening with your lips and tongue!
• Anus: The anus is another erogenous zone. Its walls are rich in nerve endings. That’s why anus stimulation feels amazing for many people. Consider this when licking your girl’s pussy.

Inside

• Vagina: It’s a muscular organ that extends from the vulva to the cervix. The entire length of the vagina is very sensitive and has G-spot and A-spot. However, only about 20% of girls can reach climax from penetration alone. So, you definitely should learn how to eat pussy to make your girl shake to orgasm!
• Cervix: Cervix is a 3-centimeter-long neck of the uterus. This part is very sensitive, and many women intolerate even the slightest pressure on their cervix. However, some women enjoy having it stimulated during sex or masturbation.
• G-spot : This spot, located 2-3 in up inside the front wall of the vagina, is characterized as a super erogenous zone. It’s an area where you can reach her clit internally. When you stimulate the g-spot, it may lead to a powerful orgasm and even female ejaculation. However, this zone may not feel pleasurable if your girl isn’t thoroughly aroused.
• A-spot: This spot is also called AFE zone, female prostate, or even epicenter, it’s located very deep in the vag between the cervix and the bladder. The A-spot is about 2 inches higher than the G-spot. If you manage to reach this area, your girl may experience a mind-blowing vaginal orgasm. However, it’s difficult to access A-spot, so it would be great to invest in a dildo.
• Rectum: It’s a zone inside her anus. Many women enjoy being fingered anally and love anal sex, however, you should talk to your girl before you decide to experiment. Also, remember to use plenty of lube during anal plays since this zone doesn’t self-lubricate.

Did you know that 15-20 minutes of foreplay dramatically increases the chances for her to orgasm? Remember, it’s a bad idea to skip right to her lady bits and get to work! Before eating your girl out, make sure to heat things up in other regions, do get her whole body on edge before going down on her!

So, here’s a step-by-step guide to make her wet and horny:

Ladies are led by ears

Do let her know that she’s better than dessert! This is something that most guys don’t think about, while it makes a huge difference! First, many girls do get turned on by what they hear. Second, your partner may have insecurity about you eating her out, and if she doesn’t think you like it, she won’t like it either. So, be sure to tell her how much you like pleasing her and how tasty and gorgeous she is. It’ll relax her and let her truly enjoy the process. You can also exercise dirty talks but watch how she reacts – some women adore it while others will turn off.

Go down slowly

Do not hurry up, make your way down slowly! This part will help to really turn her on and make it easier to please her. So, move slowly, kissing your way down from her mouth to her breasts. Stop to play with boobs a bit – lick, gently suck, care and please her nipples with your mouth and hands, it’ll set off fireworks through her body! Some women can even reach nipple orgasm with enough stimulation. Tease her breasts for a few minutes and continue your journey down. Keep kissing and licking her body as you go down to her belly and hips. You’ll be surprised at how many unexpected erogenous zones you can find!

Don’t hurry up to take her panties off

Before you get to the main act, how you get there is important. So, when you are finally down there, don’t take her panties immediately. Continue that sweet torture! Kiss her thighs, then gently squeeze her vulva with your lips through the panties. Move lower, kissing her thighs, inside of her knees, and even feet. You can’t imagine how sensitive spots you may find there! Probably, she doesn’t even know about them! What about being a discoverer?!

If she loves it tougher, gently squeeze her skin with your teeth, suck there to leave a hickey that no one will see except her. However, be extra careful with the most sensitive parts, or you risk badly hurting her!

Prior to taking her undies off, give her plenty of kisses on the mons, it’s an area above the clitoris. Is she begging you to eat her out? Then…

Take her undies off

If she hasn’t already done it herself, tease her a bit more and slowly pull panties down until they are completely off.

It’s time for the main course

Now, when she’s so eager and wet, show her pussy some love – kiss extremely softly and blow gently all around her vulva. She must be already aching for your tongue! Well, it’s time to work your magic!

In this paragraph, we’ll provide you with well-tried techniques and tips for eating pussy. They are surprisingly straightforward to perform but will make your partner shake to orgasm! However, do remember that all girls are different and like different things, so whatever technique you’ll use, watch her reaction and don’t be shy to ask questions!

So, let’s take a closer look at the best ways to lick pussy.

Pancake

The Pancake technique is straightforward yet super effective if you want to give her a hands-free orgasm. Here is what you should do:

• Stick your tongue out of the mouth, relax it and let it go down over your chin.
• IMPORTANT: keep your tongue wide, flat, and relaxed – like a pancake. You’ll have to hold your tongue this way while performing this technique.
• When you eat your girl out, do not make any shapes with your tongue – do not perform flicking motions and do not curl it up.
• Do not use the muscles to apply pressure on her pussy.
• Do not make any motions with your tongue – your head and neck will do all the necessary motions. You’ll move your head up and down, and the tongue will follow. This way, your tongue won’t get tired so quickly, and you’ll be able to eat your girl out longer!
• Be sure your tongue is very wet, start at the bottom of her vulva. Move your head slowly without applying any pressure. Move from the bottom to her clit.
• When you are at the top, pull away from her pussy.
• Start over from the bottom again.
• Once again, your tongue has to be wide, flat, and relaxed to cover
• her vulva, giving her as much stimulation as possible.

Vortex

Here is how to eat a girl out in another exciting manner:

• Your lips must be wet – cover them with saliva, or apply some lube on her pussy. Opt for an eatable, nice-smelling lubricant to enjoy it yourself.
• Make an O-shape with your mouth, the size of the O-shape depends on what works best for your girl. If you are not sure, experiment, talk to her, listen to her body, and you’ll find out what she needs for a powerful climax.
• Place the O-shape over her clitoris and surrounding area.
• Gently suck it, this must feel great for her.

This is a basic technique, below you’ll find its variations. Do try them to figure out what she enjoys the most.

• Rhythmic vortex: Suck and release the clit rhythmically, you can do it fast or slowly, depending on what she likes, just make sure to perform it at the same pace.
• Hard vortex: slow release: First suck her hard, then release it slowly. However, if you’re a beginner wondering how to eat pussy the right way, do not pick this technique – you risk hurting her badly.
• Licking vortex: When you suck the clitoris in, hold it there and massage her clitoris with your tongue. Experiment with pressure & speed, find out what she likes the most, and keep that rhythm.

Under Pressure

This technique is a variation of the Pancake. When you’re making your way up her pussy, apply extra pressure to the area directly below her clit with the base of your tongue. Once the base of your tongue is under her clitoris, slow down the motion without releasing the pressure. While you are moving upwards, stimulating the bottom of her clit, she feels the texture of your tongue, which adds extra sensations, and makes her pussy come over.

Double or Triple Action

For some women, there’s nothing better than a little double or even triple action. Besides, the study has shown that cunnilingus and fingering along with deep kissing are super effective activities to make girls climax. If you’re still wondering how to lick pussy even in more enjoyable ways than we’ve described above, you definitely should try the following:

• Use the Under Pressure technique or just lick her clit while fingering her G-spot.
• While licking and fingering, press down on her mons pubis with your free hand to provide external G-spot stimulation. Many girls love when you rub this area.
• Suck or lick her clit while massaging the bottom of her vagina as deep as possible. To make it even more pleasurable, use a finger vibrator, a penis-shaped vibrator, or a dildo.
• Lick her clit, finger her vagina and play with her anus (simply rub, penetrate with your finger, or use a but plug), this way, you can give her an unforgettable blended orgasm. Don’t forget about the lube and avoid touching her vagina with the same hand after playing with her ass.
• What about eating pussy from behind? Many girls love it! They really enjoy the way your nose goes up inside her combined with your mouth and tongue.

Bring Her to the Edge and Back

Want to intensify her orgasms? Edging is one of the most powerful tools to achieve this! You can use it not only when eating her pussy but also during vaginal and anal sex.

But now we’ll discuss how to take her to the edge when sucking her pussy:

• Eat her pussy as you usually do.
• When she’s close to orgasm, slow down and back away.
• Focus on something pleasurable that doesn’t bring her to climax, e.g., play with her boobs, pet her inner thighs, kiss all the way around her vagina.
• When she calms down a bit, start licking her pussy but now at a slower pace. Do this until she’s about to orgasm, then stop again and perform other non-climax-inducing activities.
• As soon as she calms a bit down, eat her out at the slowest pace until she comes over dripping wet.

This technique can lead her to the most powerful orgasm in her life! On the other hand, you should know your girl well before you decide to eat her out this way. That’s because some women experience trouble coming over even if you do everything right. And if it applies to your girl, do not try to take her to the edge – you both can end up unsatisfied and frustrated.

There are some issues that can totally ruin the moment or affect the amount of pleasure you can give to your partner. You should be aware of them before you start eating your girl out. Here, we’ve consolidated the most common and the worst mistakes men can make:

• Do not make orgasm your goal: As we touched on above, some girls have difficulty with reaching orgasm. So, don’t tell her that you’ll definitely bring her to climax, especially if you didn’t do it in the past. Both of you should just enjoy the process.
• Avoid being inconsistent: Use the same speed, rhythm, and pressure when you eat her out, especially as she’s about to come over. Otherwise, she’ll have to restart building up to orgasm or just can get bored and frustrated.
• Do not try to imitate porn: Porn is made to look good on the screen, directors do not care whether the actors enjoy the process, making porn a bad way to learn how to suck pussy.
• Do not try to replicate sex with your tongue: Of course, you can lick around the vaginal opening, but you’re really limited with what you can there. And if you keep trying to penetrate her with your tongue for too long, she might get bored. So, return to her clitoris and other bits sooner rather than later!
• Avoid being too rough: The clit is her most sensitive part, so do not apply too much pressure – most women won’t appreciate that!
• Do use your hands: Most girls like double stimulation, besides, working with your fingers can give your mouth and tongue some rest.
• Do not try to cover all her vulva: You are not supposed to clean her pussy, sometimes rubbing a tiny area for a long time feels amazing. If you find this spot and she starts shaking then just chill there for a while.
• Do not rush: You’re really missing out if you see pussy eating as a type of foreplay before getting to the “main course”. If you want to eat her out like a pro, remember that your attitude matters!
• Do not be shy to ask for her feedback during and after the cunnilingus: Watch how her body reacts to what you are doing and ask whether she’s enjoying the process. After both of you are done, ask her what she liked, what she didn’t like, and what she wants you to do differently. This way you’ll show her you really care and build trust.
• Do not put food on or near her vagina: Although it can be amazingly erotic and fun, eating or licking any foods from her pussy can cause serious problems in your partner – irritation, yeast infection, or even worse.
• Do not use the alphabet: Although this is a well-known technique, most girls hate it because it’s incredibly inconsistent. And consistency is a must, as we mentioned above.

How Much Pressure Should I Use To Properly Eat Pussy?

The short answer is – as little as possible. Remember, more pressure doesn’t mean you’ll bring her to climax sooner. For the first several minutes, apply minimal pressure and watch her reaction – if she gets wild when you barely touch her, then focus on using very light pressure. If you don’t see, hear or feel much of a reaction from her, then you should increase the pressure a bit.

How Fast Should I Be?

First, move as slowly as possible and listen to her body. Speed up if she doesn’t show much enjoyment. Many women can orgasm when you move tantalizingly slowly, while others need super fast motions from you.

Should I Do Anything Different When She Is About To Cum?

If you are a beginner or intermediate, then just keep the steady pace and rhythm as she’s about to come over – most girls greatly appreciate this. Switching up right before her climax can ruin everything.

On the other hand, if you know your girl well and have brought her to climax many times, you can try to take her to the edge and back – we’ve described this technique above. If you do everything right, it’ll make her cum much harder than normal.

Should I Do Anything Different After She Has Had An Orgasm?

Just don’t touch her for several minutes! Girls have a refraction period after having a clitoral orgasm. Her clit and vulva become extra sensitive, and if you touch her pussy, it may be even painful. Simply lie beside her, or kiss her while she’s recovering. After a few minutes, if you both want to continue, test her sensitivity by kissing the bottom of her vulva, very slowly make your way up to the clit. Any flinching? Then you should wait a bit more.

What If None Of These Pussy Eating Techniques Work?

Although most girls enjoy having their pussies showered with love, some of them don’t like it at all. There may be a lot of reasons for that, one of them, for instance, is the inability to have a clitoral orgasm! But it doesn’t mean it’s something wrong with the girl. So, don’t push her if she just hates cunnilingus. Have an open mind, be adventurous, and spend time getting to know her personal preferences and what really works for her.

Hopefully, our guide has helped you to find the best way to eat pussy! Of course, you’ll need some practice and feedback from your partner. But mastering the ability of cunnilingus is easier than it seems and improving your skills is so enjoyable!

Do experiment to keep things hot and enjoy mind-altering orgasms!

If you have a few secrets on how to make her pussy come over and over again, do share them with us in the comment section below!