Bondage is very popular nowadays because more and more people want a new sex experience, adding more piquancy to their sexual life. If you one of them, it will probably be interesting for you to know new styles and bondage sex positions.
In fact, BDSM is more than banal partner tying, it’s based on trust, a search of pain thresholds, and pleasure for maximum satisfaction of sexual desires. When limiting the movements of your partner, you can completely change sensations received from sexual contact. Are you ready to borrow BDSM techniques to spice up your sexual life?
BDSM Positions for Beginners
People are different. Some of us prefer restraining because it gives us a feeling of comfort and safety. It also concerns sex. Being restrained in sex is natural and comfortable for some of us. So, here are some bondage sex positions that will make your sex life more exciting.
Position 1 «Spread Eagle»
Spread Eagle is quite a simple BDSM technique both for a person who ties and for one who is being tied. By fastening the hands and legs of your partner to four corners of the bed, the back or front part of your partner’s body remains accessible. This technique is perfect for beginners because it doesn’t require great flexibility when you are being tied up in this position, and a partner who ties shouldn’t have any specific tying skills.
Don’t forget to make sure that your arms and legs are not tied up too firmly.
Position 2 «Chair Bondage Position»
It’s a popular position which will be perfect for newbies. The tied-up person is sitting, and it leads to sexual access limitation. But you will still have some fun even without having access to genitalia. It is one of the bondage positions which is ideal for blowjobs. You can also apply a bondage chair with an orifice on it, which will help diversify and enliven this sexual technique.
Position 3 «Wall-Bound Position»
This technique is a great way to tie a person up in a comfortable manner. A wall helps you to keep a balance, so this technique will be ideal for BDSM newbies.
What should you get for this technique? First of all, a bare wall or a durable vertical surface and a tape to tie up your partner. A shower will suit well because it has taps that can be used to bind your partner to them. This technique can give a superb sensation of being both incapacitated and powerful simultaneously.
Try this technique if you are looking for bondage tape ideas.
Position 4 «Wide Open Position»
Bondage newbies will fully appreciate this technique because the tied-up partner remains widely exposed, being an excellent target for the second partner.
It’s quite effortless to create this pose. The partner must be on a bed with widespread legs, arms should be bound to legs with the help of bondage tape. This stance must be as comfortable as possible. There are plenty of sexual possibilities in this pose. Oral or penetrative sex, use of sex toys, and tender impact games – choose the way you prefer the most to get great sexual pleasure.
Position 5 «Armbinder Gag Bondage Position»
To create a vulnerability for your partner, just tie arms behind the back by using a bondage rope for your sexual play. This technique doesn’t require much plasticity, but you still must keep balance. Add a gag to provide some additional fun to this technique. It is suitable for people who prefer rope bondage positions or other forms of bondage.
A gag can add a certain spice to your sexual game. But bear in mind that you should stipulate nonverbal signs which must be used in case if your partner wants to stop the play.
Less Trivial Bondage Ideas for Couples
One of the most popular ways to play in enslavement is bondage. This erotic-aesthetic practice involves the limitation of your partner’s movement. In a wide sense, it includes different bondage devices, even a cage can be used. But binding will be enough within the framework of home BDSM.
You can start with something simple, like a tie. Make sure that it’s not bound around wrists too tight. With hands tied behind the head, your defenseless partner will feel more acutely even the slightest touch. At the same time, in case of a tie or other non-aggressive objects, your partner can free himself/herself from shackles any time he or she wants and join the game.
Bondage takes your desires to another level. Here are some bondage sex ideas for those who have enough experience and who just want to diversify BDSM positions. Listen to your instincts and desires.
Position 1«Hog Tie»
It’s quite a widespread BDSM technique. You are laying on your stomach, while your partner binds your arms behind your back. Your ankles are also tied up and are pulled to your arms, arching your back.
If you are searching for rope bondage ideas, Hog Tie will be suitable for you, but this technique is not the best choice if you are a beginner. Hog Tie can lead to injuries, limbs stretching, in particular. Still, there are variations of Hog Tie where knots on your limbs are loosened.
Position 2 «Bent Over Bondage Position»
Experienced partners can try the bent-over technique. You must be quite flexible and keep balance during sex in this position. Try to apply a wide position that is similar to a dog’s stance facing downward. You can also apply for a narrow position, placing your hands near your feet. Anyway, your partner must succor you to keep balance. A lot of tied-up sex positions imply using a spreader bar. Bent Over Bondage is not an exception.
Position 3 «Cocoon or Mummification»
It’s one of the most extreme bondage sex positions where the full body is bound, creating something like a cocoon. Sexual access is secondary here, the peak of pleasure is a complete restriction. Even the most experienced partners don’t always risk applying it. It can be rather stressful to be tied up from head to toe.
Mummification using plastic wrap attracts partners who want to test their limits and challenge themselves far beyond the constraints of traditional rules. If you want to combine sexual pleasure and mummification, leave holes in the genitals area.
Position 4 «Shrimp or Forced Bow Bondage Position»
It is quite a difficulty-maintained technique. It restrains your tied partner’s breathing, so you must control it constantly. The advantage of this technique is that you bind a sitting person; thus you can turn your partner the way you want to get access to butt or genitalia. This technique is similar to Hog Tie in some way.
Position 5 «Over-the-Chair Position»
This technique is suitable for those who prefer anal sex. It provides both feelings of restriction and safety at the same time.
Beginner Bondage Positions: Which Are Good for Newbies?
Of course, there are a LOT of more different BDSM positions that you can try with your passion. But there are also a lot of positions that would be good only for trained persons. It’s like Kama Sutra – it’s interesting, maybe useful, but almost 80% of all positions are hardly difficult to repeat. So now, we came to the question: what are the best beginner bondage positions?
Try the next 4 easy-to-repeat BDSM positions:
- The crab tie
- The bottom’s up
- The handcuffs position
- The Waitress
And here are the pictures of this positions (courtesies to School of Squirt:
Wrap Up
It’s not important what BDSM position you prefer, or you’d like to try, never forget that sex and sexual plays imply interconnection between people. That’s why it’s extremely important to talk to your partner, discuss your sexual needs before, during, and after your sexual play. That is how all participants of the play can achieve total sexual satisfaction and realize all BDSM sex ideas.
Remember you should start from simple things, slowly moving towards mastering more intense bondage sex positions. It’s up to you to decide on what level you want to remain. Just remember to make it safe! Every bondage session gives you inimitable sensations, allowing you to realize your bondage ideas. But don’t forget about the hazard factors that it can bring. Discuss safety rules and potential health problems it can lead to with your partner.
Have you ever tried to use BDSM sex positions? What were your sensations? What is the most preferable technique for you? Share your experience, your opinion is very important for us. See more information about sex toys for your pleasure on AlinaLoves.com.
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4 May, 2021
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17 April, 2021
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16 November, 2020
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11 October, 2020
hey! i am a fan of exciting games and plays with my beloved, BDSM is one of our favorite activities. but we’ve never tried bondage positions for ANAL.... can you give us any recommendations? does the Over-the-chair position feel good for anal? or what about the Bent Over Bondage Position? it seems to require much flexibility and balance, right? Waiting for your answers and ideas!
10 October, 2020
My husband and I are BDSM beginners. We’ve just recently started practicing different bondage positions. We’ve already tried the Spread eagle position described in this post. It is straightforward😄😄. You don’t have to be very flexible or fit to enjoy this position. Besides, our bed is not too wide, so we felt ultimately comfortable and turned on! It was a great night😇
30 August, 2020
All BDSM positions mentioned here are great, though some of them are challenging to perform. The one I like the most is the Wall-bound position. It’s very easy! However, we improved it a bit with my hubby. I embrace him with my legs while my hands are tied up, as it was shown in the picture😉. We adore making love this way!
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