How to Give a Handjob

Whats a handjob? If you’ve had a bit of experience with sex, you should already know what it is. Additionally, if you are just starting to learn the basic handjob positions, that’s not good news.

Learning handjob positions is not an easy thing to do. When you watch porn, you’re going to conclude it is easy even for a first-time handjob but it is not. Here are some amazing handjob tips that probably never crossed your mind:

Know the Person

Other than knowing the guy’s personality, we like to talk about random stuff before you pleasure us. After all, it wouldn’t be right to proceed to the deed right away. If we do that, we will know right away it wouldn’t be the best handjob ever.

There are many topics we can talk about not just sex. Knowing where we work and which school you graduated in would go a long way in pleasuring us. It would not be a good feeling if we feel like it is just some random thing that suddenly got into your daily chores.

Never Go High-Speed at the Start

When the deed starts, don’t go fast or else our cocks will hurt. Remember, this is one deed when nobody should ever be in a hurry as you’d enjoy every second of it. Thus, it would be better to start slowly and avoid going fast until we are near the climax.

If you’re feeling really excited for the task, take a deep breath. Besides, it could lead you to give a handjob the wrong way. If it starts real fast right away, then our cocks lose its momentum. That is never a good thing when you’re trying to give the perfect handjob.

Observe the Partner’s Reactions

While giving a hand job, there should be a part to you that should look on our faces. Don’t just concentrate on our cocks the entire time. There are times when we give specific instructions in the middle of the deed. After that, it will get easier as you just need to follow us.

When we say, “Take it easy!”, you may be a going a bit rough. We don’t blame anybody when that happens because it feels really great. Unfortunately, that may not necessarily mean good things for our cock as it will be in a great deal of pain.

Give a Good View

Whatever happens, don’t block our view. We would like a great view of what you’re doing as it really turns us on. The only time our view can be blocked is if there is a magical mirror in the ceiling. If that is the case, all we need to do is to look up and see what you’re doing. That is definitely a beautiful sight.

There is nothing better than seeing your face beside our cock with your tongue wide out. That is definitely a wonderful sight. It is like preparing for something that will satisfy us for a long time. We will definitely be energized if we are not only seeing a good view but a great view too.

Use Your Mouth

After finding out how to please a man with your hands, the next step would be using your mouth. There is no need to swallow the cock in full. One good idea is using your tongue to get us turned on even more. After that, use your mouth and your hand at the same time. All it takes is a bit of creativity. There is no doubt you’ll also enjoy what you’re doing when that happens.

One great idea would be licking the head on the cock. Of course, if you tasted something bad, then it must be because we just took a leak. If that is the case, there is a chance we didn’t expect what was coming so allow us to wash it for a few seconds. Our cocks will definitely be more than pleased when your tongue gets into contact with it.

Pick an Ideal Date

It would be best to pick a good date to give the amazing handjob you’ve been planning. Yes, it is going to take a lot of preparations so it is not something that you can decide-out of the blue. Better not do it on weekdays so we are not tired from work. Perhaps, the best day to do it would be Sundays because there was not any work the previous day.

It is very popular to do this deed during holidays. It is a day when we all relax and do what we all love to do. Thus, why not make love? After all, there are no distractions so we will be able to concentrate on the task at hand. There is a reason why the holidays are marked red in most calendars. Those are days you would want to look forward to.

Practice Makes Perfect

Don’t be ashamed to admit it is your first handjob since there is a first time for everything. A big no-no is saying you’re an expert at it even if you have never have tried it. Just like in any other exercise that you want to be good at, practice makes perfect. Thus, you must prepare for times that your partner will make fun of you for doing the wrong thing. It will be worth it when it is finally right to take all the advice you get into consideration.

If you are in a serious relationship with somebody, that doesn’t mean you can practice giving hand jobs to other men. How about practising with your partner instead? No doubt, he will like that idea.

In fact, we like it when our partners bring that topic up as we get the feeling that we are really attractive. Whether it is the practice or not, we love how women give us hand jobs so it won’t really make much of a difference.

Do it at the Best Time

Just like the date, picking the right time is also important. There are days when you should never attempt to do the hand job no matter how everything falls into place. You will enjoy it twice as much if you time it perfectly. Some say the perfect moment is after waking up which is actually a good idea.

Perhaps, the best time to give a hand job would be after you eat a meal. After eating, there is no doubt you will be full of energy. You can even eat foods that will awaken your sexual appetite. Some good examples of that would be bananas, pumpkin seeds, asparagus and arugula.

Pretend It’s Great

Once we see you’re not into giving the hand job, we would politely decline before something bad happens. We wouldn’t be in the mood for it if you are not showing any will to do it. Thus, it would be best to show that you are really enjoying the task at hand even if you are not. If you are showing you are enjoying it then that will make us enjoy it too. Remember, it always takes two to tango.

On the other hand, we always appreciate it if you try and give a good hand job even if you are not that good with it. Besides, not everyone can be good at this sort of thing. There are even other women who are just born good with doing a good hand job. Anyway, it is always the effort that counts.

Even if you’re good matter how good you are, we won’t be in the mood if you are not equally satisfied with what you’re doing. You should always smile and feel excited for both of us to reach the climax. The only time you should frown is if you get tired and it could be because some of us take long in reaching our climax.

Try Different Methods

When you come across different handjob positions on the Internet, you will get curious. The best solution to that would be to experiment by trying them at all one by one. Of course, give it a little time before going to another good handjob position. It won’t be long before you get a feel of which positions we like so you can take it from there.

Remember, you have all the time in the world to try a lot of things. Thus, there is no reason to hurry. The only reason you could be in a hurry is the need to use the restroom.

When you start standing up, try sitting down a bit later. After a few minutes, try lying down. The same goes for us as we can lie down then sit up to receive an outstanding blow job. We will definitely not hesitate to spice things up a bit when we are enjoying it.

It is normal to experience a first-time handjob. There are even people who are asking, “Whats a hand job?” The truth is this is something ladies should be familiar with if they want to please their partners.

The next step would be finding out how to give the best handjob by knowing the best handjob positions. These positions guarantee maximum pleasure so make it better. One good position would be to be in our front and rub only the head of our penis.

One popular position is to form a ring using your forefinger and thumb. Another way to please us would be to blindfold us as we love surprises. How about using both of your hands though? That would always be a great idea.

We hope our handjob tips will improve your hand jobs in the future. It is not easy as patience is required. When you practice it, it won’t be long before you teach your peers how to give a handjob. When you’re an expert, it won’t be long before great handjob sex transpires.

We at AlinaLoves only have one mission, and that is to help. Thus, we can only hope we were able to accomplish our mission. If ever any question or suggestion arises, feel free to drop us a line. We promise to respond as soon as possible.

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