You probably would have already heard the word “dildo” several times, definitely know what it is, and might even own one already. But how do you use it? For those wondering how to use a glass dildo the first time, read this dildo guide and learn the secret that every girl should know to have some dildo fun.
How to Use a Glass Dildo: Top 5 Ways
Did you know? More than a million people purchase dildos every year, and with so many different uses of this toy, this number is no longer surprising. Do you want to know the top 5 ways of using this phallus-shaped toy? Then, let us get on to it.
1. Yes Ma’am, Just What You are Thinking
Would anyone be even surprised if we say that the best way to use a dildo is for vaginal penetration? In fact, many lonely ladies found happiness in their sex toy’s’ company. First-time users, here are the steps:
- Choose dildo of a suitable size If it is your and your partner’s first time using a glass dildo, try it in starter stubs sizes. If you love penetrative sex and believes in “bigger is better,” then go for that bigger size. After all, what size dildo you choose depends entirely on your preference. Luckily, they are available in various sizes. However, it’s highly recommended to start from the smallest one if you are a newbie.
- Use a Lubricant
Use some generous amount of lubricant. If the dildo hurts during insertion or you have trouble getting it inside your vagina, arouse yourself more or add more lubrication. Use a lubricant compatible with the dildo’s material. We highly recommend water-based lubricants since they are safe even when using a glass dildo or silicone dildos.
- Find Your Style and Speed Each woman is different. You can always listen to friends or other users tell their stories on how to use a glass dildo or how to insert or ride it, or maybe share their dildo techniques. In the end, though, your satisfaction and enjoyment would still depend on you.
- Obey your body Does it want you to go slow and gentle or hard and fast? Moving your dildo in and out by just an inch or moving it entirely in and entirely out every time is your choice. Your body knows exactly how it can get stimulation and pleasure, so just follow its demands and enjoy that experience.
- Try Various Positions Using a glass dildo is not just limited to reaching down between your legs and inserting it, so be creative and try varying positions while using your toy. Why not try that sitting on the dildo position? Or try using it while lying sideways or even while on hands and knees. Your goal is ultimately to locate your G-spot, enhance stimulation, and reach a climax.
2. Of Course! Backdoor Play
Who says that dildos are just for women? If you do not have a vagina, it does not mean you cannot use this toy; there is a backdoor. Simply put, use it for anal playtime.
- Choose a Dildo Ideal For Different Anal Positions You need a firm and smooth dildo that can hold its own during playtime. Do not even consider those soft and floppy ones, as they will not deliver your desired results. This is probably the perfect time to look for that best glass dildo out there. Is there anything that can beat glass for smoothness and firmness?
- Lube, Lube Up And Lube More This is not the time to scrimp on lube. Put a very generous amount of lube on your toy before inserting it because, unlike a vagina, a rectum does not produce a natural lubricant making it prone to damage. Make sure that your mind and body feel completely relaxed during anal playtime. Keep a bottle of lubricant at hand in case anal sex becomes a little uncomfortable, and once again, make sure your lubricant is compatible with your dildo’s material construction.
- Keep it Slow and Steady Let us share how to use a dildo for the first time on anal sex. Be slow, steady, and firm. Rectum muscles would most likely put up some resistance, so insert with a quiet and firm pressure so you can overcome those muscular walls. Hold the base of your dildo securely and firmly and slowly ease its shaft in then out of your rectum. Take your time. Find that perfect rhythm that works.
- Playtime With Your Partner Some men feel stimulation through their rectum. If you are one of them, try some anal dildo positions during playtime. For those who are curious, this is also a way to know what a dildo feels like. Be adventurous enough to try it.
3. Hands-Free Pleasure – Strap On Time!
- Using Dildo On Girlfriend Using a glass dildo does not mean using it only on yourself because you can use it with a partner too. Do you want to go hands-free? There are several varieties of straps, and they come in different colors, shapes, and sizes. Strap them between your legs, around your hips, on any part of your body, for that matter, even on objects. Only your imagination is the limit.
- Harness It On Nicely We suggest reading those strap instructions carefully and strapping it on before sexual play. It can be unromantic and can decrease the level of excitement if you shuffle in putting a strap on the toy while in the middle of the act. In a worst-case scenario, that great mood can disappear entirely.
- Different Positions Your goal is to have fun and enjoy that moment with each other while using a strap on dildo, so try different positions where vaginal or anal penetration is possible. Find the best satisfying position. If you are using a dildo for the first time with straps on, go slow until you are confident of your control without touching it.
4. Sharing is Caring
Share dildos are now available in the market. It is becoming quite popular with couples these days as both can enjoy the pleasure of using it at the same time.
- Use Your Pelvic Muscles The majority of share dildos rely on body contours to stay in place. They also do not work well with a harness. In using share dildos, your pelvic muscles will do that job of holding it in, but it will definitely reward you with enhanced orgasmic sensation.
- How To Insert the Share Dildo Share dildos have two shafts, one short and one long. Insert its shorter shaft into your vagina and while using those pelvic muscles to keep it in place, insert its longer shaft into your partner. With its shared weight inserted, holding it in place becomes more comfortable.
- Finding the Right Angle and Position To ensure both partners feel the sensation, find a perfect angle and position where this toy can rub both of your clitorides. It might not be easy at first, so work together. Upon discovering that ideal spot, move in a rhythm that suits you both.
5. Temperature Play – For The More Adventurous!
Have you ever seen a dildo made of stone, metal or glass? They look elegant! That is not the best thing about them, though, because manufacturers did not go out of their way to find and use those materials, so they just look good.
Welcome to temperature play. Cool down or heat up that stone, metal or glass dildo for extra sensation and more pleasure. We call it temperature play because you use different degrees of temperature to get the best satisfaction.
- Find Your Material Go for glass if you want a sturdy but lightweight dildo, take extra caution when using it. Glass may break with too much pressure. That is not something to worry about with stone or metal though, but it would weigh a little more compared with its glass counterpart.
- Control the Temperature Use utmost caution when heating or cooling down your dildo and avoid making it too hot or too cold, as it will burn you either way. It does not mean though that you would not take advantage of that heightened arousal brought about by a temperature change. Just make sure that you control the temperature. Run that dildo down your or your partner’s body first. Maybe, on the thighs, back or belly as part of foreplay and then insert it when it gets to the right temperature.
- Always Put Safety First Okay, trying dildos and dildo tricks are fun. However, you should not sacrifice safety for fun, especially when heating or cooling it. A friendly word of caution. Do not immediately move a glass one from hot to cold temperature because a quick change in temperature weakens and warps glass and can lead to breakage. A microwave oven can heat up lots of things, but please do not use it in heating a glass toy. It causes hot spots.
How to Insert a Dildo
- Finding a very comfortable and relaxing position is actually the first but most overlooked step in this process. Just thinking about sex toys and playing get most people really excited that they forget this very first step. Sit back or lie down. Relax.
- Then make sure to lubricate. Technically, vaginas produce their own lubricant, but with a toy, natural one might not be enough, so additional lubrication becomes essential. Apply some lube generously. Keep in mind that no matter how natural looking your toy might be, it is still not the natural thing so it will not produce the natural lubrication of a real penis. Your dildo’s material composition can also absorb some of the lube, and if it gets too dry, there can be unpleasant friction. You will feel discomfort rather than stimulation. Therefore, lubricate liberally.
- Make sure you feel aroused. Build arousal using your hands and/or dildo. When doing it with a partner, this is the best time to be creative with foreplay, try exploring each other’s bodies, and find your partner’s most sensitive spot. Use your mouth, tongue, or any parts body part to arouse your partner.
- Once you feel ready, insert it slowly and gently while taking deep breaths. According to scientific studies, blood rushes to your genitals when you take deep breaths, helping them relax and engorge. You do not have to insert the entire length, but if you want a deeper penetration, then go ahead and enter the whole thing, no one is stopping you. When you have inserted it at your desired penetration level, pause for a bit, letting yourself adjust then start moving it in and out.
- Listen to your body and obey it. You can move faster and harder, or you can take your time and do it slowly and gently. Enjoy that feeling of pleasuring yourself.
How to Ride a Dildo
You can ride a dildo in several different ways. If it comes with a suction cup, you can stick it on the floor, or a chair, against the wall or on the mirror then ride it. Its own suction cup will ensure that it stays in place even without holding it. You can also get a strap for your dildo. Just strap it on a chair or headboard or against the wall, etc.
Once you have secured your dildo, position yourself above it, then slowly sit on it while guiding it inside your vagina. Once inserted, you can now start moving. Try moving up-down, forward-backward while finding the exact movement where it hits all vaginal walls and clitoris. You control the action. Move as you want while making sure it hits just the perfect spot.
The Best Dildo Sex Positions
We have mentioned several times in this article that you need the right angle and position to get the best out of your dildo. We believe that the best way to find it is through trial and error, but let us give you some dildo tips. Try these different positions.
On Your Back
This is like, the basics. Lie on your back while bending your legs up, lean forward then thrust the dildo in between your legs. If you want a great filling sensation, twist to the side since that would make your pussy a little tighter.
On All Fours
Go on hands and knees then insert the phallus-shaped toy into your vagina. For some handless fun, just strap it to your headboard or wherever and still on all fours, position yourself where it can penetrate you from behind. From this position, it easily reaches your clitoris, providing good stimulation.
Sitting (Chair, Sofa, Bed)
If your partner loves watching you getting off while pleasuring yourself, this is a good position. Sit in an upright position then bend your legs slightly. Then reach down to insert your dildo. Aside from that sensation of deep filling, this position allows you to reach your G-spot and enjoy an enhanced sensation.
Using your suction cup (better positioning)
Most dildos come with suction cups. They are not there as a decoration but rather, for exploring more ways to reach orgasm as well as for trying different positions. A few other positions worth trying are:
- Doggy style while standing up
- Putting it on a glass bowl
- Ride the dildo on the floor
- Strapping it on the bed’s headboard
- Up against the wall
- Use a chair to ride the glass dildo
Dildo Care Tips
Remember to clean and sanitize your dildo after each use carefully. This would help to prevent diseases as well as infection, especially if you share it with a partner. You can use special sex toy cleaners, but even without them cleaning a fantasy dildo is relatively simple. Just prepare some warm water and antibacterial soap. Set dildos made of silicone, glass, stone or metal in boiling water for around 2 minutes or run it through the dishwasher.
We recommend using condoms with your rubber small dildos. You have to know that rubber absorbs most dirt. So, for safety and hygienic purposes, it would be best to put a condom on the toy before using. Wash it thoroughly after each use.
Final Word
You can get the best dildo training only through practice. We hope our tips will be helpful for you! Have mind-blowing orgasms!
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