Today, in this article, we are gonna explicitly talk about submissive positions that can turn your partner on and give you both a pleasurable experience. Better sex means a better relationship, and who doesn’t want that? In BDSM, the right sex positions are very important. That ensures that the pain is minimum, and trust us; you do not want any extra pain in the whole affair.
The Basics of Submissive Positions
These positions may not be very out of the box, and some are really basic. Sub dom relationships are based on the structure of power between the couple. Studies found that women implicitly associated sex with submission, while men didn’t. At the same time, women’s adoption of a submissive role predicts lower arousal and greater difficulty becoming sexually aroused. In any case, submissive sex positions can greatly improve couple’s sex life.
Submissive and Slave Positions Overview
- Standing: This may be the most basic advice anyone has given you but trust us when we say that this is one of the most underrated positions as far as BDSM is concerned. Standing erect, you invite your partner to do all sorts of dominating stuff while still not giving into completely.
- Kneeling Upright: Spread your legs a little apart and keep your hands behind your head while pointing out the elbows. This submission sex position is such an inviting position. Your dominant cannot disagree.
- Kneeling: This is a very non-aggressive pose that will be loved by your partner.
- Kneeling Face Down: This is an extension of the previous one. You look down while completely submitting yourself.
- On All Fours: One of the most popular submissive poses, it is an all-time favorite. Get furniture or something to support it.
- Belly: Spread your hands and legs apart like a butterfly on each side and lie down.
- Bend Down: This is the best position for spanking and other punishing acts. This is the perfect tied up sex position.
- Backside: Place your hands around the ankles and spread your legs apart. This will expose your genitals to the dominant.
Submissive Positions For Sex and Blowjob
Doggy Style
How to do it
Get down on your knees and hands while having your partner penetrate from behind.
Why it’s hot
Doggy style is one of the best submissive postures or sex positions in general as a matter of fact. It is raw, animalistic, and extremely pleasurable.
Up the Dom Factor
You can have your partner go on you right from the behind, either in the vagina or anal. He may try to tug at your hair and pull while taking you in control.
Lowered Dog
How to do it
While you are at doggy style, explore this position. Rest yourself down and touch your head to the bed while having your hips raised.
Why it’s hot
With your face down, it is just a hotter variation of the doggy style.
Up the dom factor
Your dom can press your head while thrusting himself from behind.
The V
How to do it
If you know anything about how to please your dom you are bound to know about the V position. It is an extension of your regular missionary position. You need to raise your legs higher up and stretch it to your head during sex.
Why it’s hot
It is one of those submissive sexual positions that is easy to perform, provided you have some flexibility. But it is oh so pleasurable!
Up the dom factor
Ask your partner to hold your hands above your head to make the game a notch higher.
Doggy Blowjob
How to do it
Did you know that you can suck your partner in the doggy position? Just kneel and meet his meat in the middle. You can grab his ass for a squirming feel.
Why it’s hot
Your dom will love to be on the receiving end for one time. Trust us. It will be a treat for him.
Up the dom factor
He can totally make you deep throat and control you by your hair.
Handcuffs
How to do it
Handcuffs and other sex toys are extremely normal in BDSM. ask your partner to tie hands from behind while penetrating you from behind.
Why it’s hot
Gives a sense of control.
Up the dom factor
Your partner can hit you lightly and punish you while at it since you are at his/her mercy.
Face Down Doggy
How to do it
Start with doggy and slowly lower yourself on your belly and let the partner rest on your back.
Why it’s hot
It gives an illusion of more tightness than the vagina actually offers. It offers some resistance in penetration too which is a great turn on.
Up the dom factor
Your partner can bite your back which will be exposed or gag you and deep throat you with a dildo or fingers. It offers great control.
Missionary
How to do it
It is your basic sex position.
Why it’s hot
The missionary may be the oldest sex position but it never can go out of style. It is inherently hot.
Up the dom factor
Dirty talk can make it really intense.
The Spreader
How to do it
While you lie down in your missionary position, raise your legs and your partner is supposed to sit up and spread your legs while holding your ankles.
Why it’s hot
It exposes the vagina to the full view of the partner.
Up the dom factor
The full view makes it a very vulnerable pose.
Final Words
Now that you know all the great submissive positions and bondage sex positions, go try these out with your partner tonight. Do not forget to let us know in the comment section all about your experiences.
