What Does Being Collared Mean: Guide To BDSM Collars Types

Have you ever had the feeling that something is missing in your d/s relationship especially during display? Well, it happened to the best of us. Submissive collars are one of the most significant BDSM toys in a d/s relationship. Often made as a metal or leather BDSM collar, it’s one of the best BDSM toys that have a deep meaning in and outside your dominant-submissive life. And in case you are wondering what does it mean to collar someone? Here is what gives, in the ‘Kinkdom’ being collared means having a collar around your neck as a sign of dominance. It’s often given by a dominant to a submissive. Collaring someone like any other; you can think of it, is committing a person your submissive. Collars do not necessarily have to be pronounced around your neck, there are subtle leather BDSM collars that can be used when collared.

In addition to this, some BDSM collars have metals within them and can be worn anywhere depending on you. There are different types of collars, all used to mean different things. If you are curious as to what BDSM collar types exist, then you are exactly where you need to be as there are different types of collars that you need to know about.

If you are looking to start your d/s relationship journey, this BDSM collar is the right start. Just as the name suggests the collar of consideration is a BDSM collar type worn by a submissive beginner in the vanilla world. It usually shows the situation when you as a submissive or your submissive puts your d/s relationship under consideration. This leather BDSM collar is often offered by the dominant who is interested in progressing in a new or an existing relationship to the submissive. At the point of offering this leather BDSM collar, you will then have to decide whether to continue with the relationship with that dominant or not.

There is absolutely nothing to worry about at this stage as it’s unlike flirting or taking a pass on a stranger. The collar can only be offered to you during a new relationship or a vanilla relationship that is about to move into the d/s relationship. In other words, there is always existing chemistry either casual or serious (although not those kinky) before the offering, so no weird feeling whatsoever.

Another thing about the collar of consideration is that you can wear it for as long as you want while trying to make your decision. While still on the leather BDSM collar of consideration, you get to enjoy sensual BDSM play and if the relationship is successful then you can level up to another collar with more serious and intense meaning. Since you will have to be in a new relationship to earn this collar, you must at all times, even outside the d/s display respect the significance of this collar either as a dominant or submissive. The collar is also a subtle symbol of ownership hence always watch out before approaching a collared submissive as an external dominant of such is regarded as gross misconduct within the BDSM community and can hurt your integrity and reputation. It’s pretty much like being caught flirting with another girl during a double-date, only more intense and damaging.

When enough trust is earned between you and you’re dominant, only then can you upgrade into this BDSM collar type which is sometimes made of leather. The BDSM training collar is worn when you are being taught the kinky way. It is generally a leather BDSM toy in which the dominant use in training you. After wearing the collar of consideration and you’ve decided to go ahead with the d/s relationship, it is now up to your dominant to walk you through the next step – training you.

This step is very crucial to your growth in the d/s relationship as this leather BDSM collar signifies the time where you get to know your dominant better through their display. Not just this, your physical and mental limits are known during this time and most of your fantasies, fetish, and desires are carried out to weed out the ones you don’t like or can’t take. This stage provides adequate connection and intimacy between you and your partner as much communication is done here. By doing these, you and your partner will have enough knowledge of lines that shouldn’t be crossed, your desires and limitations to better improve your d/s relationship. Moreover, if you feel you’ve had an extensive discussion on d/s relationship with your partner and you’ve both talked about the lifestyle, features, fetish that you have and you both have enough trust for each other, the collar of consideration can be skipped to move on to leather BDSM collar.

Have you gone deep in your d/s relationship with your partner? Is your relationship very mature? If yes! Then the protection collar is specifically made for your submissive. This BDSM gear> is often made as a dog collar or a leather BDSM collar. This is a type of BDSM collar that translates to – keep off! he/she is mine. If worn as a submissive, it means you are identifying with your dominant telling people within the BDSM community that you are already owned. This keeps the single dominants off your back as it can mean that approaching, talking or touching you is prohibited. To your dominant, the protection collar is also a sign that you are under total protection as your dominant takes full responsibility for your physical, mental and emotional well-being. This level of ownership and responsibility is the reason why it’s worn only when the relationship is matured. This leather BDSM collar, although not regularly worn, is mostly worn within the dungeon or a kinky house party anywhere there will be a large gathering of kinksters.

Although most d/s collars have significant meaning in a d/s relationship, the play collar doesn’t necessarily mean or represent anything. As a submissive, you get to wear the play collar during kink scenes or play. They are the only easiest to wear BDSM collar type that can be worn without any responsibility or obligations intended. Even though it can be given as a gift by your Dominant, you can also purchase it by yourself. When worn during a kink scene, you’d better prepare yourself for the most sexual and kinkiest BDSM experience you can ever hope to get. It can be of any type although mostly metallic, especially dog chains, there are some leather BDSM worn as play collars too.

Do you want to keep wearing something that showcases your d/s relationship wherever you go? The BDSM day collar is what you need. Unlike other different types of BDSM collar, the day collar is a discreet piece that can pass on as any jewelry in the eyes of the public and as a plus, it can be a very attractive piece that can complement your everyday outfit. Although there are leather BDSM collar made for this purpose, they are also not necessarily worn around the neck. The BDSM day collar can either be a neckpiece, anklet or bracelet depending on your choice.

Since collars are used to have personal significant meaning, never assume you know a type of collar worn by anyone even if it’s a leather BDSM collar as this might be very rude. Also, not all BDSM-ish sub-collars like a choker or anklet means that the wearer is part of a d/s relationship or even in your kink world, some just wear it for fashion so always be cautious in cases like this. So, what are you waiting for? Why not start your collar experience to your d/s relationship with all the information AlinaLoves has given you.